In 1961, when I was just eight years old, I contracted measles. There was no vaccine available at the time. Like many of my classmates, I suffered through dangerously high fevers — mine reached 106 degrees — and nearly died. The disease left me almost totally deaf. I watched my parents endure the agony of nearly losing their only son, only to face the heartbreak of my permanent hearing loss.
Though I briefly regained hearing in one ear, I lost it again at age 13 — overnight. Doctors believe the measles virus lingered in my system for years. That one illness changed the entire course of my life. I had tested into the top academic class, but without the ability to hear my teachers, I was unable to keep up with the work. I struggled through middle and high school, unable to participate in class discussions, and burdened by anxiety and isolation. My parents worried constantly about my future — whether I’d even have one.
I was fortunate to attend the National Technical Institute for the Deaf in Rochester, N.Y., which gave me a path forward. But the “what if” still haunts me. I was a strong student and athlete. I also loved summer camp—until I returned as a deaf camper and was bullied relentlessly. The psychological toll was immense.
Measles wasn’t the only disease I endured. I had chickenpox, which later led to a severe case of shingles at age 40. I also contracted mumps in my groin while at camp and nearly died again. Doctors warned I might never have children. Thankfully, I have one son.
None of these vaccines existed when I was young. My life could have been radically different had they been available. Today, I stay up to date with my vaccines — including four COVID shots and annual flu shots. When I did get COVID, it was mild and left no lasting effects — thanks to the vaccine.
That’s why I am deeply alarmed by Robert F. Kennedy Jr.’s stance on vaccines. Measles is resurging across the country. More children will suffer. Some will die. Others will lose their hearing or face lifelong disabilities. Kennedy rejects decades of scientific evidence proving vaccines are safe and effective. He is not a medical expert. Neither am I. But I trust the scientists and doctors who have dedicated their lives to protecting children from the horrors I lived through.
To parents who are hesitant, I ask:
Do you want to live with the guilt of knowing your child’s suffering could have been prevented?
Do you want to risk your child’s future — academically, professionally, emotionally?
Do you want your child to unknowingly infect others, spreading disease to classmates and friends?
Before RFK Jr. took office, measles cases were rare. Vaccination requirements kept our communities safe. I urge you: do not listen to anti-vaccine rhetoric. Do not gamble with your child’s health. Protect them. Vaccinate them. Spare them — and yourself — a lifetime of pain, regret, and unanswered “what ifs.”
Michael Bienenstock lives in Winter Park.
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