How much do CT parents charge their grown kids in interest on loans? What a survey found

How much do you think the average pair of Connecticut parents charge their grown kids in interest for a loan?

MarketBeat.com, a leading financial media company, surveyed 3,014 parents and found that an increasing number are charging their adult children interest on family loans,” according to a the site.

How did Connecticut fair nationally? Below the national average of 5.1%, according to MarketBeat.com, with Nutmeg parents on average charging 4.6% interest.

For borrowing adults in Connecticut, be happy you do not live in Nebraska or Oregon. According to MarketBeat.com, both states tie for the highest interest rate of 6.8%. Even so, that number is lower than the 11.25% national average for personal loans.

Check out these other interesting findings from MarketBeat.com:

Here’s what parents in Connecticut revealed about how they lend, what they expect back, and where emotions come into play:

How much would you feel comfortable lending at one time?

Less than $100: 29%
$100–$499: 26%
$500–$999: 16%
$1,000–$4,999: 14%
$5,000 or more: 15%

When do you expect repayment?

Within 1 month: 21%
Within 6 months: 21%
Within 1 year: 15%
More than 1 year: 8%

Half of parents say rising living costs have changed how much they’re willing to lend. For some, generosity remains untouched; for others, the purse strings are tightening.

When it comes to the emotional side of lending, the split is just as telling:

59% are happy to help with no stress.
27% say they’ll do it if necessary, but aren’t thrilled about it.
4% admit to feeling resentful.

And what about family drama? 14% of parents confessed that lending money has damaged their relationship with their adult children, while 86% insist it hasn’t.

“The Bank of Mom & Dad has always been generous, but even generosity comes with boundaries,” said Matt Paulson, founder of MarketBeat.com “What’s striking is that while most parents don’t expect repayment – and certainly not at commercial interest rates – inflation and rising costs are starting to reshape how families think about money. In many cases, these family loans aren’t just financial lifelines; they’re also emotional transactions that test trust, responsibility, and family dynamics.”

https://www.courant.com/2025/11/08/how-much-do-ct-parents-charge-their-grown-kids-in-interest-on-loans-what-one-survey-found/